girls nite out!
Sunday, May 20, 2007
i love to have girls nite out. :)
PART 1 - Friday 6.30pm-9.30pm, city hall
kiayun, michelle, rachel and i had a wonderful time having dinner together and simply chatting. it was definitely quality time spent. no loitering, no shopping. just a nice dinner followed by about 2hrs of pure chatting. Somehow we felt as though we were in the Sex and the City setting. haha it's tough to differentiate who's who but anyway, instead of talking about our sex life (like duh, since we've got none), the conversation was mainly on our views on relationships and well, life. It really felt like a heart to heart talk where i actually felt that i know my friends alot better now.
we came up with many conclusions from this nice lil chat... here's a brief summary:
1. rach said something very very intelligent.. it was like a stroke of genius or something. haha it's something like this: “ 如果你的男人喜欢比你漂亮的女人，你没有满足他生理上的需要，如果你的男人喜欢比你丑的女人，你没有满足他心理上的需要。” Most of us agreed that it's pretty true. i even concluded that i regard my self esteem very highly. if someone ever attempt to diminish your self esteem, you should leave him. Somebody worth the love wouldnt do that to you. that is probably why i'll be sad if he leaves with someone uglier than me, because that is a direct hit on my self esteem. =X
2. michelle is soooooo... 大女人!!! gosh. i still remember how i disliked ed initially. =X now i am thankful that he remained together with my dear friend even though she's like so hard to please. hopelessly practically romantic. haha. oh well. as long as he doesnt mind i guess they'd be ready to get married anytime from now. =D
3. kiayun is really big on emotional/psychological connection.. haha i guess being able to communicate is more important than anything else. i guess it's true to a certain extent. but i feel that it's not that devastating if a guy leaves you for someone he can communicate with better. there's bound to be someone that you can connect with well right? =) looks, on the other hand, is more or less irreversible. though somebody might argue that u can wait someone that will appreciate your looks. oh well. it's okay, i still believe it's not that depressing if your man leaves you because you cant communicate properly. alot of people divorce because of that right?
4. rachel is.. well... er i dont know how to describe. okay, she's materialistic, BUT she'd rather give up her man for her friends. (awwwwww....) so i think the guys with her will have to be nice to us first, if not all of us will tell her to break up with that guy. haha we are soooo mean.... =X
5. main conclusion! 爱情还是面包？面包! relationships are more or less built up on money. before people get together, they go out for movies or meals to get to know each other better. even if you dont spend and simply go for pinic, you need transportation fees and obiviously money to get everything you need right? there's no such thing as surviving on love to live in present times. especially in this era where females are more educated and increasingly independent. most if not all would rather support themselves than to starve with a lousy man.
oh here it is... our conversation for the evening. and this is only part one. hee coming up next is cupcake day! wheeeeee shall update when the photos are in. =D i loveeeeee spending time with the girls. somehow after so long, the people that i really cherish and miss are those from my secondary school. are they really no true friends in jc and uni? it's alright. our seven years of friendship is still going strong! i love you girls! *muackx*
hee thanks ky, i koped this from your blog! :D
Labels: happy times
--Merci tout le monde--
Sunday, May 20, 2007
