understanding
Tuesday, January 24, 2006
Had a little argument today. Sometimes it's really difficult to use the right approach on the right person or perhaps understand that what happens around us are mostly beyond our control. It's really tough. Maybe i'm in the wrong or maybe none of us is wrong, it's the circumstances that caused the unhappiness. Furthermore, whatever that we're going through now may not be desirable and may not be something that we can choose whether we want it or not, but in my opinion, it's how you choose to face the problem and not to push the blame to anyone. It's not ur fault and it's not mine, so how should we solve the problem? I believe that it should be the mentality rather than blaming each other. Anyway we moved on after that. I wonder whether others have met with such problems before. Sometimes you may have tried, but the other party thinks that you're not putting any effort. Or have you have questioned how much he/she understands you? Everyone takes different approaches in doing different things and not all approaches can work.
And so i thought of a so called brilliant idea. Expect the Unexpected Whenever you have a feeling (use ya instincts!!) that things may not turn out smoothly, have a talk beforehand. Get things right first. I think it'll prevent lots of unnecessary arguments. Little talks improve understanding dont they?
~ i see ur effort and i'm touched.. i'm putting in effort too.. can you feel it? ~
--Merci tout le monde--
Tuesday, January 24, 2006
